My partner must seek my consent before having s*x with me.

June 10, 2019 Tina 0 Comments consent, Vandora

Vanessa Williams, a former Big Brother Nigeria contestant, popularly known as Vandora has stated that her boyfriend must always seek her consent whenever he wants to have s*x with her even though they are dating or have had s*x before.

Recall, that the same lady revealed sometime ago that her ex- boyfriend raped her many times by having s*x with her while she was fast asleep and without seeking her permission .

In a recent interview, Vandora insisted that a man taking his woman against her will, is rape whether they are dating or not.

Read her statement:

“When I made that comment about my ex in the house, rape had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as rape.

It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years. However, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said.

“But it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anyboy is taking you against your will, it is rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not.

My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. Rape is actually a big deal, and so far sex is not consensual, it is wrong.”